When all the hopes and everything you desire walks away from you , then that’s the door of the entirely different world waiting for your arrival. Yes, I am not a kind of a happy person who would fake around about the bright colours of life. Rather i would be the one bringing in front the harsh realities of life.

It is often said while you are gearing up your head completing your graduation degree ( especially engineering ) there are alot of things that happen to you that change you completely . Sometimes the rainbow and the pot of gold are on your platter and sometimes the thunder shower. The most simplest that i could quote is you know how to deal with pressure. this is the only area in the practical world where all the engineers would excel that’s working under pressure.

But when you are going through all this, when you are trying to create a balance between your personal problems and building your professional career you suddenly realise… OHH My God .. life has changed. something that happened when i started reading biographies of famous  leaders . I got acquainted with a fact there is much more going outside the reach of our personal life that we need to know and care about. we need to stand for ourselves and for others , if we really want to make this world a better place to live . This is where i sat for a while and thought _ ” Is this what i really wanted ?”  this was the point i got satisfied with the fact that life is what happens entirely opposite to what we have thought about it.


There i realised  all what happened during my life was preparing me for all what i wanted to do .. Those best friend betrayals , those heartbreaks and those competing  women , those committed mistakes , all wrong choices were just making me grow as a better person in life .

so there i would say never loose hope , never give up just keep rising . Now i am focusing on broader issues of life and psychology. Let life surprise you , tease you but just make the best of it . I will be coming up with a series of these aspects everyday


Feedback is always welcome and anything you are feeling troubling your life do share with me

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